tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8665936809496571912024-03-12T20:47:58.820-06:00Saskatchewan SunshineUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger149125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-31028037124667252132009-09-24T16:37:00.004-06:002009-09-24T16:44:12.289-06:00When Marrying A Clown...<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Hey! I know what you first thought and that's not very nice! I was talking about Dan's balloon twisting when he's dressed as a clown for parades and stuff.<br />With his unique talent/hobby comes many unique wedding possibilities. Such as balloon flower bouquets for myself and my bridesmaids. A gorgeous balloon ceiling even maybe. Balloon whatever. Still looking for ideas on how all to use balloons. Dan is busy learning new flower styles, so I am surely to have one of a kind bouquets.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-88989678215320632362009-09-24T16:13:00.002-06:002009-09-24T16:18:53.222-06:00To DJ or Not To DJ, That Is The Question<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">One where the answer keeps becoming more and more apparent. It is very difficult to find a DJ around here. One that has his/her own equiptment and who is willing to get the important songs I have picked that they don't already have is even harder. I think it is time to give up and look into renting a sound system and enlisting a friend to spin tunes for the evening. Must call Long & McQuade in Regina tomorrow when they are open and get some prices.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-29223876416640674572009-09-24T16:01:00.002-06:002009-09-24T16:12:24.739-06:00Capturing the Moments<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">We have a photographer! He is amazing and I am soo pumped! In the beginning of October, he's coming to do our engagement photos for our wedding announcement in the paper. He's also a friend of Dan's so we know he will treat us fantastic. He's affordable and does phenomenal work, so much better than some photographers I spoke to that charge much more for much less. Check him out at </span><a href="http://www.chrisgrahamphoto.com/"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">http://www.chrisgrahamphoto.com</span></a><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">I spoke so so many photographers and I knew from the first moment that Chris was the man for the job. If you're looking for photographers in the Estevan area and need more information, leave a comment. I have a list of photographers, contact information, and pricings. But check out Chris' site for Saskatchewan weddings. Trust me, he's the best. Just remember, he's booked for June 12th, 2010 already.</span><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-21665274178963762342009-09-24T15:49:00.002-06:002009-09-24T16:01:13.700-06:00Midnight Lunch? How About Midnight Bonfire?<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Yes, that's right. A bonfire. At a wedding. No, I'm not joking.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">I think the idea is great. Why feed people a bunch of lousy cold cuts when we can eat hot food cooked fresh? Weather permitting of course. If the weather turns miserable on us, then we will fire up the BBQ for our hot dogs and smokies. Good times to be had. Don't forget about the marshmallows, it's not a bonfire without marshmallows. :)</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-84753806069761191852009-06-18T15:42:00.003-06:002009-06-18T16:12:46.982-06:00Not Much Has Changed<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">I haven't been able to complete much lately. And it's not for lack of trying. Dan is still trying to contact his work friend that DJs. I'm waiting on confirmation from the photographer still. I have been looking into renting tables and chairs, which is proving to be fairly difficult in our small city. I'll keep making calls and even if I have to use a few different places, I'll find enough. I can't wait to get into more entertaining stuff. I will have to start looking at invitation styles really quick here so that we can order everything we need and have plenty of time to put them all together. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-10719222427602628192009-06-14T11:59:00.005-06:002009-06-14T12:40:01.722-06:00Moving Along & Coming Together<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">We now have an officiant for the wedding. A woman that Dan has known for many years is a marriage commissioner in our city and she has agreed to marry us. I think she is just as excited about it as we are. When she returned my call, she sounded very happy and stated just how "pumped" she was about it. I am so, so happy! It's going to be fantastic to be married by someone we know, and it feels amazing knowing how happy she is too. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;">She is also friends with my first choice photographer and is going to help us talk her into taking our booking. :) </span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;">I started calling D.J.s and that is proving to be a bit of a downer. Talk about expensive. But a work friend of Dan's used to do it, so hopefully we hear from him sometime. Rumor says he still has all his equiptment. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-90819302071958296462009-06-09T12:46:00.002-06:002009-06-09T12:58:56.834-06:00Preliminary Guest List: Check<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">We have the first run of the guest list and we are pleasantly surprised with it. We went from the 400 + guests that made us stop our wedding planning last time, down to 223 (before Dan's work list). We now have a number and have capped it off at 250 maximum, 200 preferably. So we will now start looking into our budget, we will budget for 250, and hopefully round it down to 200. </span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:arial;">I have already begun contact with our preferred officiant and am just waiting to hear back from them. I have also contacted 2 photographers, waiting on their quotes, and looking into who else to get quotes from. This is starting to look up for us. Maybe it was the key to it all along. If at first you don't succeed, threaten to run away lol. Just kidding. But I'm feeling good about everything and things seem to be progressing quite well. Starting to think about flowers, looking into invitation designs, figuring out attendants, dreaming of decor, my mind is going miles a minute! </span> </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-73711350461207735272009-06-04T16:37:00.002-06:002009-06-04T16:57:05.586-06:00Not Much To Report<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Happy Birthday Mom! I love you! I hope you had a fantastic day!</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">It's been a slow week in the wedding planning department, mainly due to an extremely busy week in the work department, but month end is now done and my brain is slowly starting to feel less like Jello. In this slow/busy week, my parents were at the oil show in Weyburn and ran into my to be brother-in-law/generous wedding host. I hear reports back that he is extremely happy to be having our wedding at his acreage and has plenty of ideas that he would like to run by us. It's a pretty good feeling knowing how much he cares. </span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">On a side note, I would like to say how proud I am of Dan. He started a new workout program not too long ago, P90X. He wanted to get a little more active, get into better shape, build some more muscle, and just feel better about himself all around. Well I am very happy to shamelessly sing his praises, as we have to go shopping for new jeans for him. He is so happy about it, and I'm proud of him because he's so happy. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-2943240668579975272009-05-29T16:06:00.003-06:002009-05-29T16:18:53.436-06:00Houston, We Have Liftoff!<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Or rather, we have a date. Either way it's liftoff for wedding planning. Which is probably less predictable and more stressful than a NASA space flight. But in many (very much different) ways, just as wondrous. We have confirmed our preferred date with our very generous wedding host, and it's set to go off on June 12<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">th</span>, 2010. I have a year and just a handful of days to pull this off. I don't envision a terribly extravagant event, so I have plenty of confidence that it will go over pretty easily. So here marks the beginning of the journey and we're onward to the preliminary guest list. </span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">In the same sense, I think I already have colors and a "theme" picked out. We are believing that we are going to go with light and bright blues and bright limey greens, centered in the theme, "Under The Stars". It should work well for us seeing as we're having the wedding at my to-be-brother-in-law's acreage... outside... in the evening/night (and possibly wee hours of the morning)... Under The Stars. It also gives me a perfect reason to do a balloon ceiling with streamers and hanging stars like in one of my older posts... :) Win-Win for me! </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-6941595955344575372009-05-21T18:34:00.004-06:002009-05-21T18:45:52.964-06:00Picking a Date... Again<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">Ok, so I have two potential dates picked, June 12th, 2010 or September 11th, 2010. Just have to run it by a few key people. I'm leaning towards June 12th, hopefully it works with our wedding host and the V.I.P.s. We're going to have the entire wedding out at Dan's brother's acreage, so either month should bring us decent weather (typically). Plus those dates will definitely not interfere with football season. I have my parents' guest list, waiting on the list from Dan's family, and we're still plugging through the friends lists. Everything is starting to come together again, much more quickly and a lot easier than the first attempts. I guess we just have a better idea now of what we want and need to do.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-23236164454735331842009-05-20T10:18:00.002-06:002009-05-20T10:29:19.977-06:00Welcome Back<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;">After over a year hiatus, I am back. Some very busy and stressful times lead us to thinking we were going to run away to get married, but after some long discussions, a few small arguments, and a lot of thought, we're back to having a wedding at home with the ones we love. I couldn't be happier. So along with that, here goes the blog again. A place where I can collaborate my thoughts, ideas, and things that interest me along the way, and maybe help out some fellow brides in the meantime.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-70192404441227610732008-02-21T16:40:00.001-06:002008-02-21T16:43:09.530-06:00Brides: Fitness and Nutrition<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Look fabulous on your wedding day with this healthy exercise and nutrition guide to get in shape for the wedding day and beyond. Of course you want to look fabulous on your wedding day – who doesn’t? Unfortunately, a gorgeous gown and killer accessories can only take you so far. The true pathway to looking and feeling amazing is paved by a healthy fitness and nutrition routine.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Ugh..you know that tired piece of advice is easier said than done. But that’s where we come in… We’ve outlined the basics to get you started towards a healthier you.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Getting Started - Lifestyle Changes vs. Restrictive Dieting:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">The key here is simple changes you can incorporate into your daily routine that will gradually improve your health and the look of the body. In other words – no crash dieting! Extreme caloric deprivation is not only dangerous, it sets you up for failure since it’s impossible to maintain.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">If you’re looking to lose a lot of weight, you’ll need to get cracking at least 6 months before your wedding day (or as soon as you read this!) Even if you’re just looking to tone up and drop a few pounds, start today. Why wait?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">When it comes to losing or maintaining your weight, forget fad diets, forget the off-limit foods, forget the banned categories of foods. There is only one simple rule you need to know: to lose weight – you must burn more calories (energy/exercise) than you take in (eat). It’s all about calories in vs. calories out.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Nutrition 101 (the calories-in part)</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Get a general estimate of how many calories a day you’re burning, then build your meal plans around an equal amount of calories (to maintain) or slightly less calories (to lose). A handy free tool can be found at dailyplate.com. Here you can enter personal stats like height, weight, and weight loss goals – along with the various types of physical activity you do each day (not only at the gym, but also activities like cooking, cleaning, walking up stairs – they all count). The tool will then calculate the number of calories you should eat based on your goals.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Here are some simple guidelines to help you maintain your caloric goals, keep your energy level up, and get all the nutrients you need:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">1) Eat 5-6 small meals a day</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Give up the notion that you must starve yourself to lose weight. Your body is designed for survival, and part of its survival mechanism involves holding onto body fat to be used in times of food shortage. Skipping meals or eating a very low amount of calories causes your body to go into starvation mode, which slows your metabolism.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Three large meals do not provide your body with the constant flow of nutrients and energy it needs to increase your metabolism and burn fat. Strive to eat 5 or 6 small meals evenly spaced throughout the day.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">2) Portion Control</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Understand that the size of your stomach is about as big as your two fists. So at one meal, you should never eat more than two fists full of food. Here’s a general idea of the correct size portions:</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> * Protein – a deck of cards or the meaty part of your hand with the fingers cut off</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> * Carbohydrates – make a fist and cut your hand in half (or about 1 cup)</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">3) Food Content - Focus on Fiber and Protein</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Food without protein or fiber has little to no nutritional value (that’s what they mean by empty calories). With every meal you eat, you should aim to get about 10 grams of protein and about 5 grams of fiber – for a total of at least 60 grams of protein and 25 grams of fiber per day). This doesn’t mean you have to bring out the calculator every time you eat. Getting your daily amount of protein and fiber is easy if you’re eating 5-6 small meals a day consisting of foods that have at least a few grams of fiber and protein. Check the nutrition labels on the foods you buy.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Carbohydrates/Fiber</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Forget the notion that all carbohydrates are evil. Complex carbohydrates rich in fiber are “good carbohydrates,” absorbed slowly into your system, giving you a steady energy supply. They can be found in whole grain breads, pasta and rice - also beans, fruits and veggies. The fiber in these foods also helps promote satiety, making you less likely to overeat.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">When it comes to carbs, you should aim to have at least 3 servings of vegetables and 2 servings of fruit per day. Avoid any grain products with the word “enriched” on the label and pasta products with “semolina” in the ingredients; instead opt for those with whole grain, stone ground, and whole wheat. Same goes for items containing high fructose corn syrup (sugar) in the first three ingredients – skip ‘em!</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Protein</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Protein is necessary for muscular growth and aids in weight loss by:</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">1) requiring more energy to digest than other foods (i.e. burning more calories and helping with the calories in vs. calories out equation).</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">2) helping to preserve lean muscle tissue while you lose fat</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">3) slowing down the absorption of glucose into the bloodstream; reducing hunger and making it easier for the body to burn fat</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">4) promoting satiety – helping you feel full so you can stop eating sooner</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Other Easy Nutrition tips:</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Having difficulty sticking to this eating plan? Here are some small steps you can take to achieve your caloric goals:</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- stay hydrated – drinking lots of water helps you stay hydrated and may also make you feel full (sometimes hunger pangs are actually a sign that you’re thirsty). How much should you drink? Multiply your total body weight by 75%; this is the total number of fluid ounces you should take in each day.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- sub. sugar free/low fat versions of your favorite snacks</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- sub low fat or fat free dairy for whole fat versions</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- switch to diet sodas</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- replace sugar with splenda in recipes or other items you usually add sugar to</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">- limit alcohol intake – not only is alcohol empty calories (all sugar, no fiber or protein), but it usually leads to poor eating decisions or skipping workouts. Try your best to avoid it.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Exercise 101- (the calories-out part)</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Getting Started - Establish an exercise routine you can live with. If you’re currently sedentary, don’t attempt to dive into an hour-a-day/seven days a week routine – because chances are, you won’t stick to it. Instead, increase your energy level with achievable goals; 30 minutes for three to four days a week is a good start for those who haven’t hit the gym in years. If you’re already pretty active, commit to taking it to the next level – either by adding a few extra minutes to your workouts, or increasing the intensity of your routines.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Regardless of your current fitness level, you should strive for an exercise routine that combines cardio, strength and flexibility. Here’s an optimal fitness schedule for you to strive towards; depending on your current fitness level, working up to this routine may take more or less time:</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Cardio Schedule </span><span style="font-family: arial;">- 3-4 cardiovascular workouts a week for 25-40 minutes. Pick activities that you enjoy and try to change it up - remember, exercise is meant to be fun. Take a fast walk or jog with your dog, go swimming, ride your bike, play tennis.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Strength Schedule</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> - 3-4 strength workouts a week for 30 minutes. When strength training, you should work until fatigue – meaning the last repetition of each exercise should be extremely difficult. Don’t forget to include core and stabilization training; try incorporating physioballs, BOSU and discs into your workouts, or take a pilates class once a week.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Flexibility Schedule</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> - Stretching will help you increase flexibility. Flexibility training can help avoid muscle imbalances, postural distortion and injuries. Stand tall, shoulders back, walk graceful and don’t forget to smile, this is your day!</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">No Time?</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Let’s face it – we’re all pressed for time – especially busy brides-to-be. The most efficient way to get all your cardio, strength and flexibility training in is through interval or circuit training training. By doing short bursts of cardio and strength with minimal rest in between – you can get the most of your time. </span><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-70861072355676104912008-02-21T16:37:00.001-06:002008-02-21T16:39:44.724-06:00Bridal Beauty Countdown<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:arial;">The bridal countdown is on! Follow this monthly bridal beauty regimen, and ensure you’re a beautiful bride on your wedding day. Seeking that illustrious bridal glow? Of course you are. Few times in your life actually command all to rise from their seats to feast their eyes upon your beauty as you walk into view. For such an occasion, looking “good” just doesn’t cut it. You need to look once-in-a-lifetime fabulous. Feeling the pressure? Fortunately, the one thing you can control on your wedding day is your bridal look. For while that fabled glow won’t just miraculously arrive in time for the big day, careful planning and prep work can ensure your most radiant self walks down that aisle. To avoid last minute beauty blunders – here’s what you need to do now, and what can wait until your final hours of singlehood…</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:arial;" >Get Started Now! (or about 6 months out)</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Get Great Skin – Now’s the time to address any skin problems you’ve tolerated; rid your skin of acne, sun damage, scars or wrinkles. Book an appointment with your dermatologist and discuss treatment options, such as retinol creams, lasers, skin lighteners or chemical peels.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Get In Shape – If you haven’t already, start a fitness and nutrition routine that you can live with - and stick with until your wedding day (and beyond!). Need some motivation? Join the bridal boot camp craze. These fitness programs geared towards brides are popping up all over the country.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3) Plan Your Look – As soon as you’ve found “the dress,” decide how you want to wear your hair and makeup for the big day. Now’s the time to test new looks. Start growing your hair if you think you’ll want it longer. If you’re contemplating a drastic cut or color change – do it now – and leave time to get used to your new do, or change it back.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" >3-6 Months Out</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Hire Your Pros – If you love your stylist and are getting married locally, make sure he or she is available on your date. Otherwise, start auditioning stylists for the big day. Many hair stylists also offer makeup services and are willing to travel, while others do not.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Get a Facial – To ensure positively glowing skin on your wedding day, start a regimen of monthly facials</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:arial;" >1 Month Out</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Make those Whites Pearly – Schedule a teeth cleaning, and if necessary, consider whitening your teeth. Crest white strips are a painless, inexpensive way to whiter teeth. Or if your budget allows, have them professionally whitened.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Go for a Trial Run – Schedule your consultation with your hair stylist and makeup artist for about one month prior. You should have your veil and any hair pieces at this time.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3) Fake a Tan – Experiment with tanners, bronzers, lotions, tanning beds etc. Give yourself enough time to ensure the look is natural and to your liking.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:arial;" >1-2 Weeks Out</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Cut and Color – The best time to schedule your final cut and color is 1-2 weeks out – to ensure enough time to fix any last minute color mishaps. Avoid doing anything too drastic.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Shape your hair “down there” – Make an appointment to have your bikini line waxed (you don’t want to fumble with razors on your honeymoon), and have any other waxing done now (eyebrows, upper lip, legs). This will allow enough time for any redness to fade.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3) Get your last facial – Again, leave enough time for any acne/redness to fade.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:arial;" >The Day Before</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Put on the Polish – Get your final manicure and pedicure the day before so nails can thoroughly dry. Get a bottle of your polish from the manicurist for last minute touch-ups.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Go Light on Sodium and Curb the Alcohol – Have fun, but don’t go crazy at your rehearsal dinner. Too much salt and alcohol leads to eye puffiness.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3) Pack an Emergency Kit – Include tissues, nail file, breath mints, bobby pins and nail polish. Get pressed powder and lipstick from your makeup artist.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">4) Get that Beauty Sleep – Avoid caffeine and exercise before attempting to go to bed. If you just can’t get enough shut-eye, freeze moistened green or white tea bags to put over your eyes the next day. The tannins will help reduce any puffiness.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:arial;" >Day Of</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">1) Eat Breakfast – Avoid anything too fatty or salty. Instead eat fibrous carbs and lean protein for energy.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">2) Drink plenty of Water – Try to drink at least 32 oz in the eight-hrs leading up to the ceremony.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">3) Give Yourself Time – Bride’s typically begin their hair about three hours in advance, followed by makeup.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">4) Relax and Smile – You know you look fabulous! </span><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-54219692621124011472008-02-21T16:30:00.002-06:002008-02-21T16:35:15.580-06:00Reduce Wedding Stress<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Advertisements, to-do lists, future in-laws, they all demand attention – and the resulting stress can overpower what’s supposed to be a joyous time in your life. You’re a bride-to-be, certainly a revered title. Some might even say the envy of all hopeful marrieds....</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">But you’re bombarded with a growing pile of mundane details demanding your attention, and the stress that results can threaten to overpower. Instead, emerge from the pile of fabric swatches, font styles and contracts and ..…just….breathe. During your engagement, step away from wedding planning, and take time to enjoy yourself as a fabulous single woman. Sure, kicking your heals up and relaxing as your task list expands exponentially may sound impossible. In reality, allowing yourself some time to rejuvenate will not only reduce wedding stress, it will ultimately make your wedding planning more efficient. Have you ever tried going for a morning run without a good night’s sleep the night before? The same applies to wedding planning.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Here are some easy methods to reduce wedding stress:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Reclaim your life and your self</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">What activities comprised your free time before wedding planning seized your soul? Reading? Jogging? Shopping? Crafts? Don’t let those activities slip; take that time to yourself and enjoy the relaxation that comes with doing something that you enjoy. Even if just for a few hours a week – it will make a world of difference</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Reconnect with friends and loved ones</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Has it been weeks or months since you spoke with your best friend or sister (NOT about the wedding)? Losing contact is easy when you’re busy or believe loved ones are out of touch with your life. Take some time to reconnect with your closest friends; ask them about their lives. Keep them up-to-date on your wedding planning – but also discuss other aspects of your life. You are a multi-faceted person, after all.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Cater to someone else for a change</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Yes, this is one of the few times in your life when the attention is solely focused on you and your life decisions, and you should enjoy your time in the spotlight. That said, don’t get caught up in the selfishness of being a bride. Do something unexpected for someone else. Take a break from wedding planning and cook a friend dinner, serve a meal at your local soup kitchen, babysit for a couple who could use a break…You will be surprised how good (and relaxed) you will feel by making others feel appreciated, and you will immediately reduce stress.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Spend quality time with your fiance</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">It’s sadly ironic that in the planning of a new life together, couples often struggle to find quality time with one another in the present. The best way to begin a marriage on the right foot is to avoid neglecting your relationship now. Building a life as one should always be your top priority, (remember – it IS the reason behind the big party!) so enjoy romantic evenings together and try not to talk about the wedding. Focus on your relationship and your future beyond the wedding day.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Above all else, don’t lose sight of what’s important and don’t lose sight of yourself. Keeping this in mind will reduce wedding stress. Savor every moment of your engagement, and arrive at your wedding positively radiant. </span><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-72659160535565424772008-02-21T16:21:00.003-06:002008-02-21T16:29:37.475-06:00Getting Married: The Internal Battle<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">The flowers, the dress, the caterer, the guest list - our focus during engagement revolves around the details in planning the perfect wedding. Yet if we can manage to tear ourselves away from the 5th revision of the seating chart for just a moment, we realize that engagement is one of the most significant psychological transitions in our lives, packed with an assortment of tangled emotions and conflicting feelings. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Inside the newly engaged woman often lie fear, anxiety, sadness and loss. It is these important internal details, so largely ignored by conventional wedding guides and planners, that an engaged woman must face and confront if she ever hopes to arrive at the altar fully prepared to enter into a healthy marriage.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Feelings of loss?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">There is no other time in your life when you are truly giving up one identity for another. The transition is more complex than simply taking a new last name, a literal change of identity and a decision that brings with it its own set of questions and anxieties. You are also giving up your symbolic identity as a single woman, even a child. Women often worry, “I’m losing my youth,” or, “I won’t be able to relate to my single girlfriends.” A stage in your life, the only stage you have ever experienced, is ending, and many women experience feelings of loss as a chapter closes on their lives.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">What if…</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">As one chapter closes, another begins. A chapter of commitment and togetherness. This new stage brings forth feelings of joy and excitement, but fear and uncertainty are also involved. You are entering into a partnership with another human being, causing your future’s happiness to rely so heavily on the actions of another. Needless to say, this realization can expose feelings of fear. What if our marriage doesn’t last? What if he cheats on me? What if I cheat on him? What if the passion fades and we grow apart? What if something terrible happens to him? These questions can penetrate the veneer of even the most outwardly joyous bride.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Am I making a mistake?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Popular culture and society seems to conveniently ignore these questions and uncertainties. As engaged women, we hear a barrage of “congratulations!” and “what will your dress look like?” when we announce the big news. Even those closest to us neglect to recognize the importance of more internally probing questions and advice during our engagement. As a result, many women begin to question their readiness for marriage. Any feeling less than euphoric is deemed as indication of making a mistake, as we have been conditioned to believe that anxiety and confusion are a reflection of “not being ready” or choosing the wrong partner. Thus, instead of accepting and discussing these feelings, we distract ourselves with the wedding planning and ignore our internal emotions.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Harness and Accept your feelings!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">In reality, these thoughts could not be more normal. In every other major life transition, simultaneous feelings of loss and gain are not only expected, but encouraged. When you graduated high school, when you graduated college, when you moved away from your hometown, when you left your first job for a better opportunity, those around you understood and sympathized with your conflicting emotions. But did those feelings of sadness and loss hinder you from taking that next step and succeeding with flying colors? Of course not. You allowed yourself to address and analyze your thoughts, and then you proceeded with the change. This is exactly what you need to do during your engagement as you prepare for your journey to the altar and marriage. Realize that feelings of sadness and anxiety are normal, allow yourself to feel these feelings, and discuss and analyze them with those around you. Don’t allow your friends and family to focus on the wedding planning process to the exclusion of your internal struggles.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">The engagement stage involves more than simply planning a big party. It involves introspection and emotional analysis. It involves open communication with your fiance, family and friends. It involves acceptance of fear and sadness. Once a bride realizes the complexity of this transition, she can address her emotions and move forward in planning for both a fabulous party and a successful next chapter in her life. </span><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-88130896253658828342008-02-21T16:08:00.002-06:002008-02-21T16:10:00.217-06:00Gifts: Attendants<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">They have done so much for you, not only as a part of your wedding party but also as a friend and confidant over the years. How to even begin to say thanks? Start by presenting your wedding attendants with heartfelt gifts to express your gratitude.</span><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >What to Spend</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Consider both your budget and the amount that each attendant must spend to be in your wedding. In the end, it’s always the thought that counts, but giving movie passes may seem a tad ungrateful if your maids had to shell out $600 each for those couture dresses you insisted upon. Get something that lets your attendants know how much you appreciate them. Generally, spending $50-$150 is a good amount.</span><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >When to Give</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">You can present the gifts during any private moment with your maids. Many brides give them during the bridesmaid’s luncheon or tea. You can also hand them out at the rehearsal dinner, when your closest friends and family are gathered together. Consider presenting them along with a toast, thanking them for their support and friendship over the years.</span><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >Attendant Gift Ideas</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Monogrammed Robe/Pajamas—a great idea especially if you and your girls are planning a slumber party right before the wedding.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Spa Certificates—or pop for a trip to the spa, and treat everyone to a massage. Your maids will appreciate the special pampering.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Personalized Picture Frames—including an individual photo of you with each bridesmaid.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Jewelry—it can be something to wear at the wedding - but also try to choose something they will wear again. You want a gift they will enjoy that will often remind them of you!</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">A Container Filled with Goodies—can’t decide on one thing? Give it all! Find a creative container and fill it with goodies and mementos. A monogrammed canvas bag or a pretty decorated box will work nicely. If your budget allows, splurge on a nice designer handbag! Be as creative as you want.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Fur (or fake fur) Wraps—a great idea, especially for a winter wedding.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Makeup—have their makeup done for the wedding, and then purchase a few items for them to keep. They will feel fabulous for the big day and will also have something to take with them that they picked out.</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">Mixed CDs—full of tunes that hold special meaning, a great extra that can add a nice touch to another gift.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-10857880248842326282008-02-21T16:05:00.001-06:002008-02-21T16:07:08.424-06:00Guests: Welcome Baskets (2)<p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">With the emergence of destination weddings and guests often spread all over the country, savvy couples are taking advantage of a golden opportunity to offer a warm welcome and set the tone for a fabulous series of events. What a great idea! Wedding welcome baskets are a nice added touch, immediately comforting the travel-weary by making them feel right at home.</span></p><p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">How much you spend is entirely up to you. You can be as lavish as you like, although simply giving a bottle of water and a plate of homemade cookies will let your wedding guests know you care. Remember - you only need to put together one welcome basket per room - not per guest. So confirm the number of rooms reserved with your hotel, and assemble your baskets accordingly (of course make a few extras, just in case). If you know that many of your friends will be shacking up together to split the cost of hotel rooms, consider packing double of some items in each welcome basket.<br /></span></p><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Depending on the policies of the hotel in which you’ve reserved your roomblock, the staff may personally deliver the welcome baskets to each guest room, or they may leave them at the front desks and give them to guests as they check-in.</span></span> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Include some essentials that will make their stay more comfortable—such as bottled water, snack items, mints, tissues etc. Think about what items you often wish for when staying at a hotel. This is also a great place to include relevant information for your wedding guests - phone numbers for the families, other guests staying at the hotel, a wedding itinerary, nearby attractions and local maps.</span></p><p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Also consider including items that are reflective of your wedding location. Use your wedding welcome baskets as a creative way to tie everything together and introduce guests, many of them visiting for the first time, to the area. Getting married in Maine? Throw in some maple syrup! Or Texas - how about a miniature cowboy hat or a packet of spicy chili mix? You get the idea....Use this opportunity to be creative, and make your wedding a memorable event - from arrival to departure! </span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-52670520549089322372008-02-21T15:48:00.005-06:002008-02-21T16:04:26.352-06:00It's Your Wedding: Take It Back<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">There is nothing wrong with wanting to have a traditional white wedding, but sometimes it is nice to send your guests home with a little something extra that makes yours stick out in their minds for years to come. Today’s weddings are all about options that reflect your personalities and style.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Ceremony Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Location </span><span style="font-family: arial;">If you opt to not host your ceremony in a house of worship or in the same location as your reception, choose to exchange vows at sunrise on the beach or at sunset from the rooftop of the tallest building in your metropolitan area.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Refreshments </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Use the season or your location as an opportunity to greet guests with a refreshing drink. Lemonade and sweet tea will quench your guests’ thirst while gathering in the blazing sun, or serve hot apple cider to warm your guests during chiller months.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Grand Entrance</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Make your entrance especially grand by being escorted by your pet dog or by arriving on a white horse.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Vows and Readings</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Not a new concept, but speaking from the heart by writing your own vows or incorporating personalized poems into your ceremony will surely grab the attention of your guests.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Reception Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Location </span><span style="font-family: arial;">You shouldn’t feel bound by the need to have your celebration in your hometown or the town in which you currently reside. Don’t be afraid to consider something unexpected. Bring your event to your favorite vacation spot or another location that has special meaning to you and your hubby. Everyone can appreciate some time away.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Venue Type </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Think outside the banquet hall and bring your celebration to a naturally beautiful venue like a garden or museum. Your guests will enjoy strolling around picturesque grounds or appreciating timeless works of art.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Seating Arrangements </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Add some visual interest to your setting by interspersing different shaped tables throughout the room, or seating your guests at long tables for a family-style affair.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Catering Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Bars </span><span style="font-family: arial;">who doesn’t like something with the word “bar” attached to it? Your guests will delight in all things bar, from a mashed potato bar or dessert bar to an espresso or martini bar.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Ethnic Cuisine</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> If you have a strong heritage, have visited a favorite world destination together, or even just have an affinity for a particular variety of cuisine, revolve your menu around that ethnic specialty.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Family-style </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Offer delectable comfort foods with a twist, served up family-style – a great icebreaker for your guests.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Seasonal </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Take inspiration from the season and serve a menu that offers a theme of seasonal favorites. Lemon grilled salmon or maple-glazed chicken are always hits.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Courses </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Break out of the conventional chicken-or-fish mold and base your entire meal around cocktails and appetizers or coffee and desserts.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Fondues </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Fondues are making a comeback, and whether you prefer sweet chocolates or savory cheeses, your guests will relish in the rich offering.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Flowers & Decor Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Color Scheme </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Try pairing a few uncommon colors together or featuring varying shades of the same color throughout your space.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">The Food Pyramid</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Fill cylindrical glass vases with fruits and vegetables reflecting your colors. Oranges, lemons, and limes have been done so try a unique, more contemporary look with mangos or coconuts or tie it to the season with texture-rich earthy vegetables like husked corn, acorn squash, or artichokes.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Au Natural </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Consult Mother Nature for inspiration, and bring the outdoors in. Natural objects like stones, leaves, pinecones, even twigs can add an organic aesthetic to your reception décor. Place in rustic containers or scatter amongst pillar candles for added ambiance.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Lighten Up </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Floating candles in a shallow bowl add lighting and elegance to your tabletops. Or arrange multi-level candles on a mosaic of mirrors or tiles and surround them with seashells or flower petals. Placing coffee beans or red hot candies at the bottom of a vase or bowl to hold the candles steady also adds an aromatic effect.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Consult your Inner Child</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> For the kid at heart, fill decorative bowls with your favorite candies – such as jellybeans and M&M’s in your wedding colors. These centerpieces are sure to be a hit with your guests!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Entertainment Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Ceremony Music </span><span style="font-family: arial;">If “Here Comes the Bride” doesn’t suit your style or personality, choose a song that does. There is no written rule that states you can’t make your grand entrance to a rendition of your favorite Beastie Boys’ song.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Non-traditional Instruments</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> If you desire live music over a DJ, consider tying your musician selection to the theme or location of your event. A beachside bash naturally lends itself to the sound of steel drums, while a trumpet quartet will sound impressive in an elaborate cathedral.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Themed Music </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Take it one step further and zone in on the music that is indigenous to your wedding location. Guests attending a Mardi Gras-themed event in New Orleans will bask in a cocktail hour of Dixieland jazz.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">DJ and a Band </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Can’t decide which you would rather have? Have both to ensure that all types of music are represented throughout your day to please both your 85-year-old grandmother and your 21-year-old cousin.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Photography Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Photojournalism </span><span style="font-family: arial;">More and more brides are leaning toward hiring a photographer who specialized in a photojournalistic style. These photographers shy away from posed shots and aim to capture all of the candid moments that you’ll always want to remember or may have never seen.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Creative Shots</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Hire your photographer to follow you throughout your entire day (leading up to the “Do Not Disturb” sign, of course). While it may make you feel anxious to have someone photograph you as you get ready, these shots will help you to remember the joy and anticipation of every part of your big day.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Cake Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Minimal Adornments </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Some brides believe in the “less is more” adage. A simple cake minimally ornamented can make a bold statement.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Square Tiers</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Looking for a subtle way to break away from the ordinary? Square tiers make a modern presentation. Whoever said “it’s hip to be square” must have been in the cake business.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Cake-free</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> If cake isn’t your favorite dessert, then don’t feel the need to serve it to your guests. Apple crisp, peach cobbler, or even cupcakes are always crowd-pleasers.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Sugar-free</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> The end-of-meal offering doesn’t have to be made of flour and frosting. Think savory instead and visit your local cheese shop to have them construct wheels of cheese in tiers for your guests to cleanse their palates at the conclusion of the night.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Attire Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Wardrobe Change </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Today’s brides are opting to wear not one dress, but two! Wear an elegant gown while you exchange vows and slip into something a little more comfortable to round out the evening.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Anything but White </span><span style="font-family: arial;">A white wedding dress symbolizes innocence and purity, but if that’s not your style, feel free to bring out your colorful personality by adding a splash of color to your attire. You can be as subtle as a colored sash or jewels or as bold as a fuchsia-colored dress.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Something Borrowed</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Anything retro screams chic these days. So why not consider donning your mother’s vintage gown as a tribute to a family legacy. A few alterations can make it your own.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Stationery Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Ethnicity </span><span style="font-family: arial;">If your heritage is important for you to represent on your big day, do some research and find a stationer who offers multi-cultural invitations and announcements.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Creative Touch </span><span style="font-family: arial;">For more intimate, casual gatherings, request the honor of your guests’ presence in an innovative and entertaining way. Here’s an idea - have your invite printed on a balloon so guests have to blow them up to receive the message.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Programs </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Do something a little different with your programs by including personal photos or by printing them on something that serves a dual purpose like a fan.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Storybook </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Get the most bang for your program buck by including stories of how the two of you met, who introduced you, and your relationship to everyone in the bridal party. Think of all the time you’ll save by not having to explain all of this to your husband’s childhood neighbor during the reception!</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Transportation Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Grand Entrance</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> If the size of your bridal party doesn’t warrant a stretch limousine, consider arriving on horseback, on the back of your husband’s motorcycle, or in the passenger’s seat of your dad’s antique car.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Favor Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Double Duty Décor Elements</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> Use photo frames as place cards or potted plants as centerpieces, and let your guests take them home at the end of the night.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Something Useful </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Give your guests something they can enjoy for years to come. A small bag of seeds to plant will remind them of your big day every time they smell the flowers.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Something Edible</span><span style="font-family: arial;"> As if a five-course meal wasn’t enough, send your guests home at the end of the night with an extra treat of your favorite candies or special hometown delicacies.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Donations </span><span style="font-family: arial;">With a high emphasis on karma these days, give something back and make a donation to your favorite cause in lieu of knickknacks. Your guests will appreciate the altruistic gesture.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Gift Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Attendants </span><span style="font-family: arial;">After seemingly endless Friday nights planning showers and licking envelopes, your bridesmaids are going to need a little pampering of their own. A spa gift certificate is the perfect way to thank them for their hard work.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">Gift Baskets </span><span style="font-family: arial;">Make out-of-town guests feel welcome by greeting them with a basket of goodies in their hotel room. Include some essentials that will make their stay more comfortable and incorporate some items that are reflective of your wedding location. Nothing like some bottled water and Vermont maple syrup to get them through the weekend!</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;">Registry Ideas</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">The Gift of Travel </span><span style="font-family: arial;">If time away is more important to you than a waffle iron, consider setting up a honeymoon registry. Many travel agents offer services to collect, record, and apply contributions from your guests toward your honeymoon expenditures. Some even allow guests to contribute to specific activities at your destination location, such as scuba diving lessons or boat rides.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;">The Gift of Life </span><span style="font-family: arial;">If your house is already stocked with all of the essentials, give something back instead. Many eco-friendly organizations such as the World Wildlife Federation offer donation registries. </span><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-48878254703681255212008-02-21T12:41:00.001-06:002008-02-21T12:48:49.578-06:00Favors: Guest Friendly Tips<span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Hands on</span><br />Draw guests out of their chairs with a candy buffet or bakery cart. These interactive stations allow guests to fill favor bags (or pastry boxes) with the treats of their choice.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Doubly duty</span><br />Choose favors that also serve as place cards, or even centerpieces, to save money. Think small wrapped boxes of chocolate that you can stack as centerpieces, or labeled Champagne bottles that double as place cards.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Classic favorite</span><br />Cookies. Think cutouts that match a blossom in your bouquet. In many cases, these sweet bites can be designed by your confectioner.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Bridal bucks</span><br />Give your guests one more reason to be thankful for your friendship—slip lottery tickets into customized envelopes placed at each table setting.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Eco-friendly</span><br />Choose a favor that will help the environment. Think evergreen-tree seedlings. Visit greenworldproject.net to place your order.<br /></span></span><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Family bonding<br /></span>Bake cookies with mom, enlist bridesmaids to help fill clear boxes with Jordan almonds, or craft Christmas stockings with grandma.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Win-win favors</span><br />You can never go wrong with chocolate. But don't forget less traditional (and less expensive) sweets that can make a lasting impression, such as taffy sticks or caramels. Buy the sweet stuff at candywarehouse.com.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Musical memories</span><br />Share your love of music by making customized CDs for each guest.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Dashboard departures</span><br />Ask the valet to place a rose on the dashboard of each guest's car with an attached thank-you note from you and your groom. This parting gift doubles as a favor.<br /></span></span><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Home cooking<br /></span>What's better than mom's signature apple pie? Give each guest mini pies for a tasty treat.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Green thumb</span><br />Give guests a growing favor, such as potted herbs, to cook with at home.<br /><span style="color:#ff6600;">Practical present</span><br />Shield guests from the sun, if you're marrying outdoors, with pretty parasols that they'll be able to use long after your wedding day.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-9539829172720314642008-02-21T12:07:00.002-06:002008-02-21T12:09:42.461-06:00Venue Type Comparisons<p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Size up the sites - use this cheat sheet to weigh the pros and cons of various types of venues. </span></p> <span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Venue Type: Great Because…: The Downside…: Here’s the Deal…:</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >Banquet Halls/Function Facilities </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Cost efficient and hassle free wedding packages available</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Tons of wedding experience makes site coordinator an invaluable resource • Weddings can look mass produced</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Multiple events held per day, affecting your starting and ending times The average banquet hall’s ambiance may require some imagination to make it your own. Consider it a blank canvas upon which to create your stylistic masterpiece</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Hotels/Resorts </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Onsite accommodations and added amenities (concierge, shuttles, spas etc.)</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Proximity to airports and/or vacation destinations </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Low or no rental fees • Hotel ballrooms and cuisine can be generic</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Ballroom dividers may be unappealing (ask to see in advance)</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Potential lack of privacy - larger hotels host multiple events at once Providing everything in one location, these venues make things super easy for your guests. Of course, amenities, ambiance and cost vary greatly depending on the hotel or resort. </span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Country Clubs </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Golf and other activities may be available for guests</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Great outdoor photo opps • Facilities not completely private (members still on site)</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Food may be average or limited Interiors vary, but the grounds will almost always be striking (lakes, golf courses, marinas – you name it). You may have to be sponsored by a member.</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Restaurants</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Good food is their specialty</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Fully decorated interiors punch added pizzazz often lacking in basic ballroom décor. </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Space limitations – make sure the space can fit a dance floor and band or DJ</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Potential lack of privacy – if your group size doesn’t warrant renting the entire place, you may be close to regular patrons Most have experience hosting large functions – so planning is relatively painless. If you’ve got a certain look and price point in mind, chances are you can find a restaurant to match. </span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Mansions and Historic Houses </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Impressive architecture and manicured grounds provide a distinctive setting</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Privacy – these venues usually host one event at a time</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Higher rental fees </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Space – if there’s no large ballroom, parties may have to split into smaller rooms or take place outside</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• More restrictions - noise, décor and rental times</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Accessibility – these venues are often in secluded locations The style quotient is high, but expect to allocate more effort and more of your budget for this luxury.</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Libraries and Museums </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Distinctive architecture and cultural ambiance </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Exhibitions on display add element of entertainment • Higher rental fees</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Public government space – means potentially restrictive rules, hours and red tape</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Often little coordinating assistance Your guests won’t soon forget this setting, but you may want to hire a professional planner to help with details.</span><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" > Public Parks, Gardens and Beaches </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Solve decorating dilemmas when Mother Nature does the work for you </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• The natural setting complements relaxed weddings</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> • Necessary permits and many restrictions</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Outdoor disturbances – insects, dirt, mud, allergies, noises, temperature</span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;">• Must plan a backup for inclement weather Don’t think these natural settings are a breeze – everything must be rented, from tables and chairs to portable restroom facilities and dance floors.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-56788671521668283532008-02-21T12:00:00.004-06:002008-02-21T12:07:01.717-06:00Reception: Sample Timeline<p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;">Sure, you may have been to dozens of weddings, but when it comes down to planning your own reception, it’s hard to know what is supposed to happen when.</span></p><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">00:00 - Cocktail Hour – (bridal party takes pictures). </span></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >After your “I dos,” you and your husband leave the ceremony first – followed by the bridal party and your photographer – to take your first photographs as husband and wife. At this time, your guests will head to the reception site. To keep the mood festive and fun, cocktail hour should begin as soon as guests arrive at the reception, whether that happens five minutes or an hour after the ceremony.<br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >01:00 - Grand Entrance/First Dances </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Husband and wife…..</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Mr. and Mrs….this is the time for your grand entrance. The facility or event coordinator will gather your guests to await your arrival. Typically the bridal party and both sets of parents are introduced, followed by the bride and groom. Since all eyes are on you, this is the perfect occasion to step immediately into your first dance. Sometimes the father/daughter and mother/son dances can take place at this time as well – or you can choose to hold those dances after the meal.<br /></span></span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">01:20 - Welcomes and Toasts </span></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >After your first dance, all eyes are still on you. With everyone gathered, this is a perfect time for the parents, the bride and groom, or the honor attendants to speak. The host (often the father of the bride) may choose to welcome and thank your guests for coming. Someone may say a blessing. The best man and maid of honor may also choose to speak at this time.<br /></span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">01:30 - Eat, Drink and be Married…</span> </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Whether you serve a sit down meal or buffet, this is the time when everybody eats. The bride and groom and their parents are typically served first or are the first to hit the buffet. This may seem contrary to etiquette, but serving them first affords the time to make table visits while the rest of the guests are seated. Your band or DJ will play subdued “dinner appropriate” music at this time (Sinatra and old standards are a favorite). Word of advice to the bride and groom: make sure you take advantage of this time to eat!<br /></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >02:30 - Get your Groove On </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Take the lead and hit the dance floor! Guests usually follow the lead of the bride and groom, so do your part to ensure a packed dance floor. At this point, you should have already greeted your guests and accomplished your duties as hostess. Remember – this is your party, so have fun.<br /></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >04:00 - Cake Cutting </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">About an hour before the reception’s finale – your waitstaff will begin preparing for dessert and coffee. The cake cutting signifies to guests that it is appropriate to depart anytime thereafter, so <span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">make sure it doesn’t happen too early, or you could find yourself alone at an empty reception.</span><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">04:15 - Back to the Party</span> </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Of course, many of your guests will forego cake and coffee for more drinks and dancing. The band or DJ should kick right back into lively dance music for those all-night partiers who relish another turn on the dance floor.<br /></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >04:30 - Bouquet Toss/Garter Removal </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">If you plan to do a bouquet toss, it usually occurs as one of the last events of the evening. Make sure your florist prepares a throwaway bouquet so you can keep your original as a keepsake.<br /></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >04:45 - Last Dance/Last Call </span><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">Take advantage of this opportunity to leave a lasting impression, and end your wedding on a high note. The right tune for the last dance will have your guests reluctant to leave. It needn’t be slow song; something lively can ignite the mood for the after party, should you desire.<br /></span></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >05:00 - Send-off! </span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >These days, receptions are so fun and involve so much pre-planning, the bride and groom no longer wish to make an early getaway. In fact, they’re often the last to leave! Make your send-off the evening’s finale. Your coordinator will usher everyone to watch as you make your getaway. Have guests blow bubbles, toss rose petals or even light sparklers to wish you on your merry way towards a lifetime of happiness.</span><h3 style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: normal; font-family: arial;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></h3>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-26558730347737441982008-02-21T11:56:00.001-06:002008-02-21T11:59:51.607-06:00Reception: Rental Checklist<p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Depending on your wedding venue – and the type of reception you’re planning - you may need to supply some, if not all the items needed to host your event and serve your guests. Here is your ultimate reception rental checklist </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">When you book your reception site, be sure that you understand what’s included in the rental fee. Each venue is different, so you have to clarify with the site manager which items the venue provides and which you must provide. As always, make sure that everything you have agreed upon is put in writing. Depending on the venue – and the type of reception you’re planning - you may need to supply some, if not all the items listed below. Here is your ultimate checklist: </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> Tables </span><br />Here’s a breakdown of the types of tables you may need:<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Guest Tables</span><br />36-inch rounds seat 4-6 guests. <br />48-inch rounds seat 6-8 guests<br />60-inch rounds seats 8-10 guests. <br />6 ft rectangle seats about 8 guests<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Cake Table(s) </span><br />Appropriate size depends on size of cake, whether you’ll also have a groom’s cake, and whether you’ll display both cakes on the same or separate tables. 48-inch round usually works well<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Head Table</span><br />Seats bridal party. Often consists of rectangular tables placed end-to-end.<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Sweetheart Table</span><br />in place of head table, small table that seats the bride and groom while the rest of the wedding party sits at guest tables.<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Buffet Tables </span><br />If you have decided on a buffet dinner, you’ll need to arrange several food stations, such as meet carving, etc. (Buffet tables may be provided by the catering company.)<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Gift Table</span><br /> Size depends on the number of guests you are expecting.<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Guest Book Table </span><br />A small table for your reception guest book. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> Chairs </span><br />To Consider: For a seated dinner or buffet, you will need to provide seating for all reception guests. For a buffet style cocktail reception you may able to get away with enough chairs for half or more of the total number of guests. You may need to rent or purchase chair covers separately. High chairs for children should be available from rental companies. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> Linens and Chair covers </span><br />Consider: Linens and Chair covers may be included with the rented tables and chairs, or you may need to source them elsewhere. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> Tableware </span><br />For a formal sit-down reception, tables are usually set with complete place settings. At a buffet reception where guests serve themselves, plates and silverware may be located at the buffet table. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;"> Tent </span><br />A large tent or canopy may be required for receptions held outdoors to protect you and your guests from the sun or rain. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Options: Tents and canopies come in different sizes and colors. A smaller tent (20-by-20 feet) will accommodate about 40 guests at a sit-down dinner. A 20-by-40 about 200, and a 60-by-100 about 500 or more. Depending on the shape of your reception area, you may need to rent several smaller canopies rather than one large one. Contact several party rental suppliers to discuss the options.<br />Take pictures of the site for references for your tent rental company. Although they should survey the facility themselves before they set up the tent, the pictures are a good reference for them when you first set up an appointment. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> Heaters/Air Conditioners</span><br />You may need to rent heaters if your reception will be held outdoors and if the temperature may drop below sixty-five degrees. There are electric and gas heaters, both of which come in different sizes. Gas heaters are more popular since they do not have unsightly and unsafe electric cords. In warmer climates, portable AC units may be rented for outdoor events. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;"> Dance Floor </span><br />The size of your dance floor will depend on how many guests you expect. They can range from 12 by 12 feet up to 20 by 30 feet or larger. Get some graph paper and make a floor plan, and bring this to you when you visit your rental company.<br />16’x16’ (up to 100 persons) - 16’x20’ (up to 150 persons) - 20’x24’ (up to 200 persons)<br /></span> </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-87642048626887343172008-02-21T11:50:00.002-06:002008-02-21T11:55:13.962-06:00Venues: Find the Right Ceremony Locale<span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" >For couples choosing to hold their wedding ceremony at their own place of worship or that of their families, the perfect location to exchange vows is a non-decision. Many reception sites also boast beautiful settings in which to hold a wedding ceremony, offering the bride and groom a convenient alternative. </span> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;">For others though, the perfect ceremony site can present an illusive challenge, since unlike reception sites, resources for ceremony site ideas are often scarce. In response, we did some digging and came up with a list of useful ideas and resources for unique ceremony locations. Make your wedding ceremony as memorable as the reception!</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Parks: </span>Offering a picturesque outdoor setting, parks are perfect locations for wedding ceremonies held during temperate months. The abundance of natural scenery can even eliminate the need for pricey decorations!</span></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Government Buildings: </span>Often magnificent architectural wonders, government buildings are a great untapped resource for memorable wedding ceremonies.</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Rivers/Lakes/Beaches:</span> If your wedding reception will be held close to a body of water, take advantage of the ideal location and consider holding your ceremony on the banks of the water.</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">National Monuments:</span> Incorporate some historical significance into your affair, and hold your ceremony near a local monument.</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Natural Wonders: </span>Nothing signifies taking the big leap into marriage quite like saying “I Do” from a waterfall, cliff or mountain top!</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Botanical Gardens:</span> In addition to all the love in the air, a garden wedding ceremony provides warm breezes, fragrant flowers and a great relaxed vibe. Consult your almanac and ensure the outside temperatures will be comfortable during your chosen time of year.</span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Museums: </span>Another often untapped resource of architectural prowess, museums provide distinctive backdrops for ceremonies (and an opportunity to learn something!)</span></p><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Family Member’s House or Yard: </span>Perhaps the perfect ceremony site is right in your own backyard! Having a backyard ceremony adds a special personal touch and creates a down home feel. Because no two backyards are the same, it also guarantees your wedding ceremony will be unlike any other.</span></p> <h3 style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span></h3><p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Roof Deck or Roof Top: </span>If you’re close to a metropolitan area—consider the roof of one of the tallest buildings. This can make for stunning views and photo opportunities. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;font-family:arial;" ><span style="font-size:85%;">Not sure where to begin in finding these wedding ceremony sites? Start by contacting your local chamber of commerce for recommendations and information in your area, and take it from there. In considering these options, make sure to determine any rules and regulations first. Find out about any necessary permits, restrictions, parking rules or other scheduled events. </span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-37801473722253483372008-02-21T11:46:00.002-06:002008-02-21T11:50:00.867-06:00Ten Ideas to Personalize Your Wedding<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">It’s all about you so take back your ceremony! It is a ritual – time honored and sacred – but that does not mean your wedding ceremony has to be like every other. Of course, some couples choose to be extremely original and opt for exchanging vows on a roller coaster, while bungee jumping or even dressed as trekies. Good for them for such uninhibited displays of originality. But even if you prefer a more traditional and “scream-free” wedding ceremony, you can still find creative ways to infuse your ceremony with elements that are distinctly you. </span></span> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Location</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Not every wedding ceremony must take place in a house of worship. Outdoor locations and other unique ceremony sites can make for ceremonies that are both spiritual and memorable. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Refreshments</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Welcome and refresh your guests by serving lemonade, iced tea or water. It’s a nice touch, and your guests will appreciate the gesture. Depending on the season or nature of your wedding, you can use your refreshment of choice to tie in the theme or style of the day. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Personalized Pew/Row Decorations</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Who says your ceremony decorations must be floral? How about draping framed photographs of the bride and groom tied with ribbon over the ends of each row? </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Customize your Programs</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Summer brides – how about the shape of a fan? Or keep the shape and style traditional, and include personal letter or poem to add some interest to this often overlooked detail. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">The Grand Entrance</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />There are other ways to make your entrance beyond the traditional march with your father. Ride in on a horse. Or be escorted by both parents, a close uncle, brother, friend—even a pet! </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Personalized Aisle Runner</strong><br />You will know this is your ceremony while walking down the isle on a runner personalized with your monogram or logo. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Beyond “Here Comes the Bride”</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />If walking down the isle to the same song as thousands of brides before you doesn’t sound appealing, there’s no reason why your favorite tune can’t make a memorable substitute! </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Mix up the Bridal Party</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Who says your maid of honor must be a “maid?” If your best pal happens to be a guy, have a “man of honor.” Same goes for the best man; there’s no reason why there can’t be a “best woman.” </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Not Crazy about the Unity Candle? Try the Sand Ceremony</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Instead, combine sand into a beautiful bowl or vase. The sand can be of two colors, creating a visual representation of the joining of two families and something you can keep and cherish forever. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"> <span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Write your own Wedding Vows, Readings, Poems</strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"> </span><br />Nothing puts that special personalized stamp on a ceremony quite like vows and readings prepared by the bride and groom themselves. These spoken words expose your mind and your heart to each other and to your audience. </span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-866593680949657191.post-45865572252495439722008-02-21T11:39:00.002-06:002008-02-21T11:46:09.929-06:00Budget: Ceremony Savings<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Sometimes it’s easy to forget that the wedding ceremony is the reason behind the big party. In reality, the ceremony is one of the few true essentials on the wedding planning checklist, so you’ll need to allot space for it in your wedding budget. Thankfully, fabulous vows do not need be a budget buster. Heed this advice to walk down the aisle in style. </span><br /></span> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);">Site Savings: Two in One </span><br />Many reception venues also host on-site ceremonies. The ceremony fee may be built into the cost of the reception or tack on a minimal expense (planning tip - the ceremony fee is easy to negotiate since you’re forking over so much the reception). Hosting both events in the same location will also save on transportation expenses. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"> Honor Your Faith </span><br />If you have a strong religious affiliation, your house of worship will likely host your wedding ceremony. This is good news for your budget, since members of the organization can usually rent the space free-of-cost (although a donation is a nice gesture). </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"> Décor Deductions: Something Borrowed </span><br />Plan your wedding near a major religious holiday when your place of worship is decked with festive décor. “Borrowing” your ceremony décor means one less detail to plan – and one less item to purchase. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"> Simplify Your Site </span><br />Overdone decorations are unnecessary for a brief ceremony. Keep décor elements simple (and cost-effective), and save the pricey arrangements for the reception – as this is where your guests will spend the majority of time. For example, strategically placed candles set a romantic ambiance and cost considerably less than flowers. </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"> Go Natural </span><br />Cut décor costs further by exchanging vows in a naturally beautiful location. A garden wedding hardly needs additional floral arrangements, while an ornate church may be breathtaking on its own (planning tip - for public outdoor settings, be sure to check the rules and regulations.) </span></p> <p style="font-family: arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"> Music Markdowns: Amateur Alternatives </span><br />Ceremony musicians can tack on an extra $500-$1000 if you’re not careful. Consider some alternatives and pocket the extra cash for your reception entertainment. If your ceremony site boasts a respectable sound system, round up some classical CDs and someone reliable to cue the music – and viola – instant background music. Or better yet, ask a talented friend or family member to perform during the ceremony (a perfect job for that cousin you couldn’t quite squeeze into your wedding party). You’ll cut costs and give a special person a significant role on your special day. </span></p> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0); font-family: arial;"> Banish the Rental Fee: Multi-Talented Musicians </span><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"> Hire your reception entertainment to accompany your ceremony as well. Vendor pricing is much easier to negotiate when you purchase multiple services or package deals. </span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com